William Hale

Many men want to be loving partners and engaged fathers, but were never shown how emotional vulnerability, listening without fixing, or a steady presence strengthens relationships. So they learned to navigate tough moments with solutions, defending, withdrawing, or pushing through alone. Whether we work together in couples therapy or individual counseling, I help men and their partners reshape unhelpful patterns so difficult emotions aren't seen as barriers but opportunities for connection. This work can support people facing relational challenges tied to betrayal, neurodivergence, miscommunication, conflict or fading intimacy.

EFT counseling helps you recognize and interrupt patterns keeping you stuck in conflict, distance, or mistrust so you can reach for each other with honesty, care, teamwork.

With individuals, NARM helps you compassionately explore rigid coping strategies so you can experience greater choice and emotional steadiness as you "show up" for yourself and others.

My style is warm, sincere. I blend depth and practicality, professional training and lived experience with marriage, fatherhood, ADHD, and neurodivergent family life. I welcome you to also bring your whole self! In Tigard, near Beaverton, Garden Home, Raleigh Hills, Multnomah Village, SW Portland, Tualatin, Sherwood, Lake Oswego. Virtual across Oregon.